Emily Maynard acted like a lady in front of the Bachelorette cameras because she’s a ‘mother and a role model’ but behind the scenes she was putting out.

Just days before she accepted a proposal from Jef Holm, she was doing the deed with runner-up Arie Luyendyk. Apparently, the two got romantic in their fantasy suite so Arie thought that he was the one. When Em picked Jef, Arie stormed off the set screaming “You just slept me.” Of course, that part wasn’t shown on TV.

Sources close to the show say that Emily isn’t promiscuous, she was just truly in love with these two people and the final decision wasn’t easy for her.